Update

Well I have been single for ten years now. I have to admit that I am starting to wish I had someone but at the same time i am really used to it just being me. I have been stuck in small towns away from the cities where most of the lesbians are at. First it was fairmont which was a big mistake to go to and now owatonna again. I am hoping I get section 8 so i can actually move to some place where they actually have other GLBT's. In small towns the GLBT's tend to hide so it is not easy to find them. I refuse to use my gaydar as I have found out much to my embarrassment that it is not accurate as much as I wish it was. There are tomboyish straight chicks and femme straight men. I long for the old days when it was so much easier to find each other.

I did have a nibble on zoosk on FB how ever she lived 3 1/2 hours away which is a bit of drive for me. I do not mind a hour or so but more then 2 i would be in total pain by the time i got there.it is too bad as she seemed like a nice woman.

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